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stina. 20. sweden.

f(sulli) biased

If men’s kindnesses toward women were really only kindnesses, a man would be pleased if another man or woman offered these kindnesses to him. He would be pleased if another man or woman lit his cigarette or pulled out his chair for him. He would be pleased to derive his income, prestige, power and even his identity from his partner. He would take pride in another man’s or woman’s offer to walk him to his car at night. But in fact, “one of the very nasty things that can happen to a man is his being treated or seen as a woman, or womanlike.

(Frye 1983, p. 136).”

Dee L.R. Graham (1995), Loving to Survive

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Yeah!  This reality hit me a few months ago when a teenage boy at work said to another teenage boy, “ladies first!” in order to insult him.  Chivalry is not about respect or kindness.

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fairhrie:

gurlplantt:

gurlplantt:

bun sisters awawaw

It’d be pretty cool if this hit 10000 honestly

cuteness overload

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fuyusaku:

same

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9/∞ favorite harry tweets

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hirohoship:

I believe that 샛별 [Satbyeol] is really the only female underground singer that needs to be featured in tracks. Her voice is so satisfying and now she brings it unto herself to continue her solo career with this single “Do Me.” The title is indeed about doing her like “you want her.” Check out the MV as well; pure eyecandy.

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Track Name:Unknown Do Me
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solluxander:

can you illegally download sleep

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19th & 20th century tiaras

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liliumgrey:

This is beautiful.

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katelinnea:

nedian:

I love when cats decide they love something.

That is a very patient bunny.

For years, mental health professionals taught people that they could be psychologically healthy without social support, that ‘unless you love yourself, no one else will love you…’ The truth is you cannot love yourself unless you have been loved and are loved. The capacity to love cannot be built in isolation.

—Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D., “The Boy Who Was Raised As A Dog”
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bofransson:

The Olive Grove

William Merritt Chase - circa 1910

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